I’ve never done that before.
What if you were sitting on a million dollars but you didn’t dig in the dirt because of the framework, “ I’ve never done that before.” What would happen if you didn’t dig? Easy, you would never grab what you were sitting on. For some of you, you’re probably thinking, “I would never do that.” If I knew what I was sitting on, I would go for it. However, unless you are walking in faith, and doing what you’ve been called to do (start a business, ministry, speaking, write a book, build something, etc,) you are sitting on your wealth.
Many of my clients and even myself have struggled with issues about identity and not feeling or believing that we’re good enough. I used to say things like “It’s because I’m an introvert” or “I like to be behind the scenes.” It’s not that saying those things are inherently wrong, however, I came to realize that the truth was that I was limiting myself. I thought that the version of me that I was used to, was the only one that existed. This wasn’t true.
My real issue was the negative beliefs I had about myself, alongside the shame, guilt, and anger I was also accustomed to carrying. My silence was more related to fear than personality.
I remember getting on social media at times and seeing others be successful. There are times when I would desire that level of success but couldn’t fathom how I could ever be there. Comparing yourself is not healthy and I also realized that when you’re looking at somebody’s (reel) which is a short clip of their transformation, it’s not providing room for the steps that they took in order to reach the height that they have gotten to.
Many of them hired a coach. Many of them hired a therapist. Many of them hired trainers so that they could get to the place that they are at. They connected with someone who is beyond the cycle. If I want to be a millionaire I need to connect with millionaires or individuals who are like-minded. If I want to be healthy I need to connect with individuals who are healthy and are working towards that as well. If I want to get something that I’ve never had before, I need to be willing to do something I’ve never done before.
Then I decided that I didn’t want to live life like this anymore. Tears even fill my eyes now, as I think about that moment when I made up my mind that my healing was non-negotiable. I was used to helping others, but needed help! I did something I hadn’t done before, so I could see the healed version of myself that I had never seen before.
Many of you prayed for wealth and God gave you millionaire ideas and he is waiting on you to begin implementing them. Many times I was so focused on people and the fear of criticism or the fear of rejection, not realizing I was my own worst enemy because of all the hurt I had been harboring. Because of the hurt, I had been holding for so long, I was unable to use my hands for those creative projects and businesses. My hands needed to be free of the hurt I had been harboring and holding. I needed cultivation (professional help), so that I could create what was inside of me to create.
We’re always creating something. I could be creating insanity which is doing the same thing expecting a different result. Or I can create progress in my life and be prosperous which is stepping outside of the cycle. What are the results that you want? Are you willing to do something you’ve never done before so you can see the version of yourself that you’ve never seen before?
Because the version of you that you have never seen before is on the inside of you and she is wealthy. She is prosperous. She is not idle she is productive. She has many businesses. She is forgiven and forgives. She has healthy boundaries. She knows how to communicate in a healthy way. Her children arise and call her blessed if you have children lol. She has an abundance and she lives abundantly. She gives to others. That is who she is. And she is you. It’s a part of your gene pool to make an impact, generate generational wealth, and be prosperous in your relationships! Are you ready to heal? Are you ready to define your DNA? Book a call today, and see if group coaching is right for you!
Signed. Sealed. Delivered.
Coach M
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